well
I'm 24 years now....life has taken a lot of twists n turn,some which were in my control,some in destiny's.unable to bear the
excruciating agony of being lonely in this world,i write something tonight that i can admit is truth n nothing but it.
circumstances forced me out of home at the age 10.i landed up in
himali boarding school in
kurseong,
Darjeeling.....then my greatest fear was sleeping alone at night,without ma.then two yrs later,i landed up in st.
Paul's school,
Darjeeling.then my greatest fear was to survive the bullies,perhaps hide behind a shield which would protect me.then
aurobindo institute for plus two,where my greatest fear was to survive the highly different social structure of
kolkata.then
Bangalore Inst of tech,where my only target was to survive racially biased faculties and students.now that i work with
tcs,my greatest fear is to be able to survive for 3 yrs.
so in short,i have lived my life amongst fear and insecurities.i
don't repent it
coz along with it i got a huge amount of liberty and independence.but still i feel sometimes that my ma was there beside me at the darkest hours,putting her hand on my head n saying,"
bapi,
dont take tension,
u'll sail
thru" or scream at somebody,"do u know who my dad is" when
I'm being bullied,literally or figuratively.
my parents r present,but away.they kept me away from them,stabbing their own heart so that it
doesn't beat for me,only for my betterment.may be i cannot elucidate further,but the biggest lesson of my life is that money cant buy everything.
now that
I'm lonely,nomadic and earning,i feel at times that i need someone in my life on whose lap i could place my head n talk about the most irrelevant romantic events and my sorrows.someone who would listen to me and pacify me and vice
versa.
but alas!this world is so superficial..........i
don't hold any prejudice against women but certainly against girls.going by my definition,a girl is a early twenties female species whose purpose in life would be to suck up a guys money,ruin his emotions,use him to the fullest of her purpose and then go ahead for greener pastures.
a woman is defined as a mid twenties female species,who
hasn't indulged in these
heinous activities in her teens and is ready to meet a man who would love her for
wat she is and not for
wat he wants her to be.
being so difficult to find such rarities,i gave up my pursuit only to be struck by a lightening.a woman so fine,so chaste that her radiance would blind the evil eyed monsters of our society.but alas again!someone shares a common feeling somewhere,n someone so close to my heart that despite have broken his trust once,he was kind enough to give me another chance in his life and friendship.
so i go on in life,looking behind,smiling at
every failed relation,at every infatuation,at every missed opportunity of affection,at every step of selfishness.i go on n forth,doing
wat I'm designed to do,living someone
else's life in reality while living my life in my
virtual world.i feel
I'm running out of strength now,i need someone by my side,but destiny of mine is designed such that it is not to be.
so i smile and carry on.